People Pleasing

What is your thing? The thing that just wont let you be. The struggle or the dream or the thing that you just can’t NOT do? 

For me it was to figure this thing out. Figure out how to have freedom from the struggle – then help everyone else figure it out too. Because there’s […]

The Fight I lose Every Darn Time

Hello Friends! How are you?  Are you good?  I hope you are.  Then again, 50% of life is negative emotion – so if you’re just content, or maybe frustrated that’s okay too.  It’s just how it’s supposed to happen. I was talking with a client this week about a trap that I fall into that […]

Sorry I dumped you

Dear Future Self,  You got me so far!  You motivated me, showed me the way, and shared so much wisdom.  Thank you! …I’m so sorry I dumped you!  And right when things were really getting good.  My bad. I know, I know!  I always do that.  I do what works and then get where I […]

I almost got away with it

Well hello there!  I had to pop in, like I do, and say HAPPY SUNDAY! I am so glad you are here.  Seriously. You know, last week when y’all emailed, called, Facebook-ed, and private messaged me about the newsletter?  That was awesome.  If you missed, you should totally check it out… (Pun intended!) Okay, now […]

Are you shoulding all over yourself?

The other night at dinner I was hanging with a group of very smart, talented, and driven women and we were talking about all sorts of things but there was one word that I noticed had too big of a seat at the table. “Should.” I had the thought that “should” is a bad word. […]