Take parallel action.

I assume you don’t know what I mean – because I didn’t know what I mean.

It goes like this:

Remember how Monday never comes? (I know I yelled at you then, but I was so excited!) Well, it still isn’t coming. So, what do we do about it?

We take parallel action.

You are strong enough to do two things at once. You have the guts to work on you and do a great job at work. Your husband can learn to eat what you need to eat to get the results you want (or he can learn to cook, win-win!).

What are you waiting to do?

Buy clothes? Scrapbook your Australia pictures? Sell the pile of dusty stuff on the 3rd shelf in the garage?

And then what? What will that give you?

Let’s pretend you do that thing, you move that action item forward, you check it off your list and voila! Magic!

What is the magic? What are you waiting to do/feel/have so that you can _______?

Please let me know, I’m dying to hear what is more important to you than you.

With (a touch of the tough) love,

Caryn

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